Marriage is a wonderful institution but who wants to live in an institution.

Again it was same long and tiring day and I was back to home hoping that Bhabhi would have cooked paneer as promised. When I stepped in, the flat was filled with an awesome aroma of paneer and hot jalebi’s. And when I was enjoying this awesome aroma, suddenly my phone start ringing “Maa Meri Maa, Pyari Maa Mumma.” I picked the phone, it was Mom, and she said I emailed some photographs of girls, kindly select one. Before I could react, she hung up the phone.

Marriage- I feel the biggest decision of life with the dilemma of choosing a right person to be your life-partner. Are you seriously ready to share your life with someone who you may or may not know? Although love marriages are getting successful and now a days youth want to choose their partner by their wish. But the real question is whether you want to get married or not. Relationships these days have become more complex in the era of social networking. People are enjoying their life virtually in virtual world. Though at some point of time in life you have to connect your virtual world to real world.

Guys enjoy not being in committed relationships, roaming, enjoying their lives the way they want and I really don’t see people who want to get married (including me). It is said “Shaadi ka laddu aisa hai, jo khaaye wo pachtaaye, aur jo na khaaye wo bahut jyada pachtaye.” With inflation, the marriage thing, (at least for boys) is always bottom in priority list.

If you are bachelor then you have right to:
1.       You are not liable to anybody.
2.       You can come home anytime.
3.       You can keep your apartment the way it is. (You’ll find all the things as it is as you’ve left) I know it is not true.
4.       You can call your friends, stay with them, party, booze and do anything you like to.
5.       You can spend all your salary on yourself.
6.       You can wear and buy any color .(This is another important point as what we like is not allowed our partner do not like)

Although, there are some points which will pull you to the institute of marriage. As like:
1.       Since, you have someone in your life you are liable to answer so you manage your things, you follow a routine which makes you organised.
2.        You don't have to eat out daily. You know when you would reach home someone must have cooked your favorite dish.
3.       Your apartment will be finely managed and you can find a place to sit and everything at its place (Best of all you don't have to think when you last used or where you left your).
4.       You will have couple parties and family gathering to enjoy instead of house full of smoke and bottles rolling on floor.
5.       Although, the chances are low that you’ll be allowed to wear clothes of your own choice but believe me guys we always purchase the same type of clothes whereas girls gets better for us.
6.       For how many more years you’ll walk alone. After some time you need someone to walk by your side(Finally, at some point of time you need someone to be there for you. It’s a hard and proved truth).
8.       This point maybe controversial and some of you may not agree but if you have a life earning partner then she divide sorrows and multiply happiness.

And, so it is up to you to decide, whether you wanna have this laddoo or not!!!
Waise the aroma of Paneer and jalbi and my taste buds are pushing me to the institute of obligation. I was also curious to have a glance of pictures mom sent me. I love LADDOOS and I feel I will surely taste it sooner or later